Megan and Ashley Bent make DC a family affair
Megan Bent’s fifth and final year as a Durham College (DC) student may be her best one yet.
She’s once again serving as Executive Chairwoman of the Durham College Student Association (DCSA), and she’s representing her peers as Student Governor on the DC Board of Governors. In October, she wrapped up a stellar career as a key member of the Durham Lords women’s rugby team. As a Supply Chain Management – Global student, she’s completing her fourth DC program.
Best of all, she’s doing it all alongside her sister Ashley Bent. After building a successful career in New Zealand, Ashley enrolled at DC in the Human Resources Management program this year, to gain the credentials she needs to pursue her calling in Canada.
We spoke to the Bent sisters about how DC runs in the family.
Megan, how would you describe your DC experience?
Megan: It’s been really good. I know that sounds so easy to say, but I don’t think I would have been here for going on five years if my experience wasn’t good. What really sets our college apart is the amount of support that you get. I can honestly say I don’t think I could have survived five years, and all of these roles that I’ve taken on, without the support that I had from my professors, from administrative staff, from support staff. It’s a community that’s available to everyone. If I’m struggling with something, if I need assistance with something, if I need guidance about something, I have that here. That’s what really has made these past four years great for me.
Ashley, what does it mean to you to be joining your sister at DC?
Ashley: It honestly feels really special. For most of our lives, she has been known as ‘Ashley’s little sister,’ but now the roles feel reversed in the best way. I’m stepping into her world. I know she’s more than happy about that. She’s built such a strong legacy here that you can’t help but feel the impact of it. To me, it’s not just about starting my own journey at DC, it’s about walking a path that she’s paved for our family, for me, and for so many students who are here now and who will come after us. Those are big shoes to fill, but it’s an honour to be part of something she’s poured so much of herself into.
Megan, what excites you about having your sister at DC?
Megan: I hope I get to show her all the things I love about Durham College. I’m training her to be a Lord. I’m like, ‘you are not allowed to cheer for any other team. We bleed green and gold in this house’. She’s inherited a lot of my previous varsity swag, and I will be dragging her to all of the games, especially rugby and basketball.
Ashley, what do you think of your sister’s many accomplishments and impact at DC?
Ashley: I’m so proud of my sister and everything she’s accomplished at DC. What she’s done here is so much bigger than her, and that’s not lost on either of us. I know she’s doing it for the little girl inside of her, but also for the ones who are looking for an example. Someone who gives them permission to chase their dreams because they can actually see it’s possible. And what’s even more special is that it’s happening right here on the same campus as them. To me, her legacy isn’t just about the undefeated seasons or leadership roles, it’s about the way she’s inspired others, created opportunities, and made it feel like they belong. As her big sister, it’s been incredible to watch her step into all of this. And now, to be here too, is an honour.
Megan, what message do you have for students as DCSA Executive Chairwoman?
Megan: I would like them to know that we are there for them. We are here to provide clarity, to advocate on your behalf, and make sure that you’re having a good time. We’re a one stop shop for anything, and if you have any questions, you can always come to the office, send an email or DM us on our social channels. We’re here to make sure that you feel extra supported and to answer questions when you don’t know what to do. I’m a very approachable person, so if you come up and say hi to me, I promise I won’t bite.
You both have previous post-secondary experience. What advice do you have for other students?
Megan: Really get involved. You’ll get to meet people with similar interests as you. There are opportunities for you to get student placements or jobs here on campus, and connect with other great programming here. And, as a person who’s a part of Varsity culture, I would say come out to the games. That’s a great way to meet like-minded fans and to cheer your heart out. The college experience is what you make of it. If you keep an open mind and just say yes, at a moment you would have said no, you’ll really surprise yourself.
Ashley: My advice would be to do it all, take it all in, and say yes. I used to roll my eyes when people said that, until I lived it and now, I understand why it matters. People always say, ‘these are some of the best years of your life.’ And while I don’t believe your best years are limited to college (there’s so much more ahead) you’ll never be at this exact age or stage again. There’s something exciting about that. So instead of rushing to the next chapter, enjoy where you are. Study hard, but live harder. Go to events, introduce yourself to people, ask questions in class, join a club or a team – whatever speaks to you. Take advantage of everything at your fingertips: the wisdom and knowledge of your professors, the experiences with your peers, the friendships, the opportunities. Say yes. Say it often. Say it now.
Megan, how will you look back at your DC experience?
Megan: I didn’t think that the journey would be like this. It turned out better than I could have ever imagined. I’ve had so many wonderful opportunities to do really great things, like throwing the first pitch at a Blue Jays game. Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would be able to do that. I think of myself somewhat as a professional student. I’ve been here for five years, and it took me five years to finish my previous degree. But I can’t imagine doing anything else. Some people are like, ‘don’t you want to get a big girl job?’ And I’ll say, why? If I had a big girl job, I wouldn’t have gotten half of the opportunities I’ve had.